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Please try to understand my point of view.
请理解我的观点。
Wait, can I take that back?
等一下，我能收回我说的话吗？
You don't have to solve this - it helps me just to talk to you.
我不用帮我解决这个问题。和你聊一下就对我有帮助。
This is important to me. Please listen.
这对我很重要。请仔细听。
I overreacted.
我反应过激了。
I see you're in a tough position.
我知道你的处境艰难。
I can see my part in this.
这个问题，我有错。
I hadn't thought of it that way before.
我以前没有这样想。
I could be wrong.
我可能是错的。
Let's agree to disagree on that.
让我们接受我们的不同观点。
This isn't just your problem; it's our problem.
这不只是你的问题。这是我们的问题。
I'm feeling unappreciated.
我感觉没有收到重视。
We're getting off the subject.
I know I need to listen more.
我知道，我应该多倾听。
You've convinced me.
Let's take a break for a few minutes.
让我们停一会。
[If you can remember to do this, it's extremely effective-especially if you're having a big fight. After a break, it's almost impossible to go back to yelling.]
Please keep talking to me.
I realize it's not your fault.
我意识到这不是你的错。
That came out all wrong.
我表达错了。
I see how I contributed to the problem.
我明白我引起了这个问题。
What are we really fighting about?
How can I make things better?
我怎样才能把事情变得更好呢？
We can solve this if we work together.
如果我们携手合作，我们就可以解决这个问题。
I'm sorry.
对不起。
I love you.
我爱你。
最后两句是最简单、最有力量的！
